you don't want to date a concept
you want a person
There’s a certain kind of engagement post where you put up a picture of a man or a woman and ask, basically “would you date and/or sleep with” the person pictured. These posts were always bad but they’ve become sort of laboratories of new and advanced brainworms as places like Twitter-now-X have wandering packs of people who react this way to the most innocuous stories of “girls having a nice time”: